Whole of my time in the air was filled with anxiety about the hotel I was going to stay. This probably was the first time I had booked a hotel where I have never stayed before, just by looking at picture on the net. It was a risk worth taking I felt. Didn't feel like enjoying the free first class upgrade that I got. Just had a bottle of water and slipped into sleep with my iPOD singing my favourite songs.
This trip to Bangkok was at the end of a rough week, having to make a career choice. I am normally a person who trusts my judgement and listen to my heart in almost everything I do. Made up mind and signed what I thought was the best for me. I guess every travel, except for ones' made for work, has an excuse or a context and guess mine was to celebrate my new job.
I had no agenda for my 4 day trip, as all my leisure travel are, except the fact that I wanted to get some trousers stiched and look for some ideas to furnish the new house that I was getting into.
Having touched down, didn't have the patience to queue up for the normal taxi service. Went straight to a limousine, though the cost was almost 4x of a regular taxi just so that I can get to my hotel faster. When the taxi pulled up next to the hotel gate, I got down like a kid who just entered a zoo - looking up, down and around to validate my decision to stay. It was rather a very small entrance leading up to the front desk, welcome by thai women with an incredibly hospitality giving me a little hope about what I got into. It was rather a boutique service hotel with just 4 floors and the entire check-in was done manually. There were no elevators. My room was in the third floor. As luck would have it, mine was the last room on the hallway just so that my anxiety can be prolonged. The key to the room was a contradiciton to the check-in with a auto-sensor door where you flash the key in the key hole and the door opens. To my surprise, pleasantly, the room was small, well kept, lit ideally and painted handsomely. Call it anything, I am a clean freak and expect bathrooms to be of a particular standard. I have checked out of hotels in the past just because of barthroom. I held my breath and opened the bathroom door and had a sigh of relief and came back to the bed and sat down for a while to enjoy the wisdom of my decision. The hotel gave me an impression of a designer having to design a small botuique hotel with all cute things but finally having to compromise due to budget. Still, it was worth all the money, though not much.
The hotel had a DVD player and had lots of movies to rent. Mostly chic flicks and sci-fi crap. Two or three very good ones managed to sneak into the collection. It was extremely hot in Bangkok and I decided to stay in and watch a movie, take a nap before stepping out. Chose to see 'Good Will Hunting' - a film that made sense each time I watched, more so at the state of mind I was that day. The film was about priority, recongizing love and appreciating what you have now than what you don't. I felt the film could have adapted to any language for any culture. This could be and will be the only Ben Afflick associated flick I will ever enjoy.
Got out in the evening and saw the city through the prism of smoke. Looking at the cars and vans jammed up, you will be excused to think that oil prices are pre-historic. You could see a lot of motorists weaving through the traffic with their noses closed firmly, sacrificing at least 5 years of their life because of the thick pollution all around. Hardly any cycles around, understandably. I am always of the opinion that to cut down on dependency on oil - there can't be just one measure. Car pools, office buses and reduced parking lots per office will encourage less usage of cars. Use of technology to have meetings remotely. Increasing personal taxes for households with more than one car. All schools making school buses compulsory unless otherwise kids reach by cycle or through walking. Higher finance costs for funding cars. Increasing the toll. Increasing the parking costs. All these will go some distance to reduce the number of cars. All this while there is enough research happening to find an alternative fuel component that is low on carbon emission, cheap costs and scalable.
Its a common sight to spot a lot of couples, invariably a thai girl with a foreign man in the streets of Bangkok wandering towards bars and clubs. I went into a restaurant, taking the advice of the hotel concierge, that served wonderful southern thai cuisine. Spotted such couples inside of it as well and was curious to know that the waiters think about their country girls having to have dinners with strangers who kept changing each time they visited the restaurant. Not sure how I would ask him - so managed to ask him in a different way. Had to be careful with the choice of words, that he understands and doesn't misconstrue. I asked him what he thinks of single men coming to restaurants to eat like me. He said either I am a miser who doesn't want to spend or someone who doesn't know where to find a girl. There was no remorse of guilt in the way they felt. In a way, they are institutionalized to such thinking which was sad to know.